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FriendsBench · Juror PikeStamped Guilty

Judge me for naming the group chat after the friend who never pays

Four of us eat out. One of us, Cal, forgets their wallet in a way that has lasted three years. I renamed our chat from 'Thursday' to 'Cal's IOU.' It was up for six hours. Someone screenshotted it into a different chat. Cal saw it. Cal paid their last three dinners in cash, in ones, on the table, without looking at me.

The chat is called Thursday again. I am still the person who renamed it.

Their side

Cal would say they always Venmo eventually, that a public nickname is a scarlet letter, and that paying in ones was dignity, not theater.

Ask: Was the rename a joke that collected a debt, or a humiliation that collected a debt?

The jury

Guilty54 · 56%
Not Guilty21 · 22%
Both18 · 19%
Hung3 · 3%

Judge Me Softly

JMS-1031 · Verdict entered

Judge me for naming the group chat after the friend who never pays

GuiltyThe jury has spoken

Updates

  • Update

    I apologized. Cal accepted, then muted the chat. We still eat on Thursdays. I pay the tip in advance now so the math is done before anyone forgets a wallet.

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