Judge me for naming the group chat after the friend who never pays
Four of us eat out. One of us, Cal, forgets their wallet in a way that has lasted three years. I renamed our chat from 'Thursday' to 'Cal's IOU.' It was up for six hours. Someone screenshotted it into a different chat. Cal saw it. Cal paid their last three dinners in cash, in ones, on the table, without looking at me.
The chat is called Thursday again. I am still the person who renamed it.
Their side
Cal would say they always Venmo eventually, that a public nickname is a scarlet letter, and that paying in ones was dignity, not theater.
Ask: Was the rename a joke that collected a debt, or a humiliation that collected a debt?
The jury