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Family & in-lawsBench · Juror Moss

Judge me for cropping my uncle out of the family photo we paid for?

We hired a photographer for my parents' anniversary. My uncle arrived late, argued with the photographer about 'real smiles,' and stood in the back row making a face in every frame. We paid. We got the gallery.

I sent my parents a version with him cropped. I did not post it. I did not tell him. He saw my mother's print on the mantel and asked why he was a ghost. I said the frame was tight.

He told the family I erased him. The photographer offered a reshoot I cannot afford.

Their side

He would say he is in the family, that a mantel is a public square, and that a tight frame is a story I told because I did not like his face.

Ask: Is a private print allowed to crop a disruption, or does paid family include every face?

The jury

Guilty15 · 48%
Not Guilty8 · 26%
Both6 · 19%
Hung2 · 6%

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