Judge me for cropping my uncle out of the family photo we paid for?
We hired a photographer for my parents' anniversary. My uncle arrived late, argued with the photographer about 'real smiles,' and stood in the back row making a face in every frame. We paid. We got the gallery.
I sent my parents a version with him cropped. I did not post it. I did not tell him. He saw my mother's print on the mantel and asked why he was a ghost. I said the frame was tight.
He told the family I erased him. The photographer offered a reshoot I cannot afford.
Their side
He would say he is in the family, that a mantel is a public square, and that a tight frame is a story I told because I did not like his face.
Ask: Is a private print allowed to crop a disruption, or does paid family include every face?
The jury